Article Summary: Trusting Life When Nothing Makes Sense: Real Healing Stories of Inner Peace
In this deeply personal exploration, I share real transformation stories from my remote coaching practice, focusing on how clients navigate life’s most confusing moments through trust and surrender. The article presents two compelling case studies: Lakshit, a successful entrepreneur experiencing burnout and disconnection from his authentic self, and Aarohi, who is rebuilding her identity after a devastating breakup. Through my D.H.A.R.M. Sadhana coaching methodology—including techniques like emotional memory work, Breath Pause Practice, and guided journaling—both clients learned to embrace uncertainty as a pathway to growth. I also share my own dark night of the soul experience, illustrating how confusion often precedes breakthrough. The piece emphasizes that healing happens not through controlling outcomes, but through trusting the process, even when life doesn’t make logical sense. All coaching examples demonstrate remote delivery via Zoom sessions, phone calls, and digital tools, showing how profound transformation can occur through virtual connection.

Having Faith in Life Even When It Does Not Make Sense
There are times when life feels like a jigsaw puzzle with crucial pieces missing. No matter how hard you search or how carefully you arrange what you have, the picture remains frustratingly incomplete. I’ve been there myself—and so have most of my clients.
Sometimes, there’s nothing left to do but breathe deeply, let yourself cry, and keep going. Along that arduous journey, something begins to shift—not in your external circumstances, but within you. That subtle inner transformation is what I want to explore today: the movement from fear to flow, from frantic control to gentle surrender, from chaotic confusion to quiet trust.
Two Hearts, One Journey
I want to share two stories with you today—two individuals facing completely different challenges, two hearts experiencing different types of pain. Yet both found themselves at the same crossroads, where logic fails and the only way forward is through faith.
Lakshit’s Story: When Success Feels Empty
I still remember the day Lakshit first appeared on my Google Meet screen. A sharp, articulate man in his late twenties, impeccably dressed with body language that screamed confidence and control. “I’ve got everything handled,” his posture seemed to declare. But his eyes? They told a different story entirely.
There was tension there—a quiet storm beneath that polished exterior.
He’d built a successful digital marketing agency from scratch. On paper, he was the classic success story: financial security, high-profile clients, growing influence, steady expansion. But when he spoke during our virtual session, his voice caught in places it shouldn’t have. That’s when I knew—his mind was still playing the CEO role, but his heart had quietly resigned months ago.
“I don’t feel anything anymore,” he admitted through the screen.
Sometimes a single sentence carries the entire weight of a person’s pain.
In those first few weeks of our remote coaching, we didn’t try to fix anything; we didn’t set ambitious goals or implement performance improvement plans. We just talked. Through V-calls and voice note check-ins, we focused on being present, taking deep breaths, and creating space.
It was around our fourth virtual session when his carefully constructed walls began to crumble. We were in the middle of what I call a ‘Pause and Reflect’ exercise when he said something that stayed with me:
“Abhisshek bhaiya, I honestly don’t know if I built this life from fear or passion. What if all of this is just me running from something?”
I smiled gently into the camera. “Good. Now we’re finally getting somewhere.”
That’s when the real work begins, isn’t it? Not when you have all the answers, but when you finally find the courage to ask the right questions.
As we delved deeper into our virtual sessions, we discovered that Lakshit had been operating in survival mode since the age of seventeen. His father had died suddenly, leaving a void no one was prepared to fill. Overnight, he became the family’s pillar. His sister was still in college, his mother was emotionally shattered, and there was no safety net.
He learned to hustle. To survive. To provide. But in becoming the responsible provider, he’d left behind essential parts of himself—the contemplative young man who loved writing, who found solace in poetry, who could sit by water for hours just thinking.
“Life didn’t give me the luxury of sitting and feeling,” he shared during one of our phone sessions. “I just had to keep moving.”
Now, after nearly a decade of constant motion, he’d hit a wall.
“Everything I’ve built has purpose,” he reflected during an afternoon over a call. “But it lacks meaning. That’s what terrifies me.”
We began working with emotional memory—a technique I frequently use with high-functioning clients who feel disconnected from themselves. Through guided breathing and journaling exercises I sent him digitally, he wrote a sentence that would prove transformative:
“If my father were here today, would he even recognize the man I’ve become?”
That single question broke him open—and began his healing.
Over the next three months of virtual coaching, Lakshit started making different choices. Small adjustments with profound ripple effects. He reduced his client load. He began teaching a Sunday creative writing workshop online. He reconnected with old friends he’d lost touch with. He started calling his mother not just to check if she’d eaten, but to really talk—heart to heart.
Most importantly, he learned to trust the stillness. The emptiness. The not-knowing.
“I used to be terrified of stillness,” he told me during our final session. “Now I welcome it like an old friend.”
Lakshit’s life didn’t transform into a fairy tale overnight. But something fundamental shifted—he stopped trying to force clarity. He began trusting timing. He no longer felt compelled to micromanage every step of his path. He learned to listen—not to market trends or client demands, but to his own inner voice.
When I last spoke with him, he said something I’ll never forget:
“Sometimes the best thing life can do is confuse you. Because in that confusion, you stop pretending. You drop the act. You become real.”
Aarohi’s Story: When Love Leaves Without Warning
Let me tell you about another client, Aarohi (not her real name—she values privacy, so I’ve changed identifying details).
Aarohi reached out for virtual coaching after a heartbreak that shattered her entire sense of self. She’d been in a committed seven-year relationship. Everyone expected marriage, including her. Family meetings had happened. Future holidays were planned. Dreams had become intertwined.
Then, on an ordinary Tuesday, it came to an end. Her partner told her he couldn’t continue—no adequate explanation. No closure. Just a brief text message and then silence.
She didn’t cry during our first Zoom session. That worried me more than tears would have.
“Do you want to talk about what happened?” I asked gently.
“No,” she replied firmly. “Because if I start, I’ll completely fall apart.”
So we didn’t address it directly. Instead, we talked about her favorite foods. Her dog. The last time she’d danced with abandon. Books she used to love before grief stole her ability to concentrate while reading.
Slowly, session by session, her protective silence began to soften.
She explained how she’d built her entire existence around their relationship. It had been her compass. Her career decisions, the city she lived in, even her social circle—everything had been shaped around this partnership. Now that it was gone, she felt untethered, floating through space without gravity.
“I don’t know who I am without him,” she whispered during one virtual session. “I don’t even know how to exist in the world anymore.”
That’s when I introduced her to what I call the Breath Pause Practice—a simple technique for anchoring yourself in the present moment through conscious breathing, not as escape, but as a way to feel more fully. Not to fix anything, but to witness what is.
Initially, she resisted.
“What’s the point of breathing if it doesn’t change anything?” she challenged through the screen.
I smiled. “It does change something. It changes you.”
The breakthrough came during our sixth week together. I’d asked her to journal on one question:
- If this pain has a purpose, what might that be?
The following week, she joined our Zoom call crying, but her energy was different. “Maybe life didn’t break me,” she said. “Maybe it broke the illusion I’d been living.”
Her transformation accelerated from that day forward.
She enrolled in a pottery class. She started reading Rumi and Rabindranath Tagore. She began spending weekends with her niece and nephew. She stopped checking her ex’s social media. Most importantly, she stopped asking “Why did this happen to me?” and started asking “What is life trying to teach me?”
It wasn’t a smooth journey. Healing never follows a straight line. But she stopped fighting the mystery. She began trusting her soul’s wisdom.
She shared something during one of our sessions that left me momentarily speechless:
“Maybe we think we need to see the whole picture before we’re willing to trust. But trust doesn’t work that way, does it? Maybe it’s the opposite. Maybe we have to trust first, and only then does the picture slowly come into focus.”
I nodded, deeply moved by her insight.
The Pattern I’ve Learned
That’s the secret I’ve discovered through years of coaching and navigating my own life challenges. Life rarely gives us a complete roadmap. Instead, it hands us a flashlight and a path shrouded in mist. We take our steps, one careful step at a time, trusting that the next stone will be there. And mysteriously, step by step, it is.
I’ve witnessed this pattern in my own journey, too. When my parents died suddenly in 2017, nothing made sense. When I started pursuing holistic coaching while still in the corporate world, nothing made sense. When I chose to write vulnerably, speak publicly, and share my personal story, many people—including parts of myself—questioned my sanity.
But I kept walking. Breathing. Trusting.
Now, when I sit across from clients like Lakshit or Aarohi, I don’t offer them guarantees. I offer them presence. A mirror. A hand to hold as they navigate their fog. Because I know intimately what it’s like to walk in darkness. And I also know that indescribable feeling when light slowly returns.
My Own Dark Night
I remember my own dark night of the soul several years ago. I’d just relocated for what I thought was my dream job at a luxury hotel. Within three months, due to internal politics and despite having done nothing wrong, I had to make the painful decision to resign. Around the same time, I learned that a dear friend had been diagnosed with a serious illness. My apartment’s plumbing failed, leaving me without hot water for two weeks in the dead of winter.
Everything that could go wrong seemed determined to do precisely that.
One evening, I sat on the floor of my apartment, surrounded by still-unpacked boxes, wondering what cosmic joke was being played on me. I felt utterly betrayed by the universe I’d taught others to trust. The practices I’d shared with clients felt hollow, and the wisdom I’d offered seemed like empty platitudes.
That night, I did something I hadn’t done since childhood—I cried until there were no tears left. Not graceful, dignified tears, but messy, ugly sobbing that came from somewhere deep inside. When I was finally spent, I felt a strange emptiness. Not the hollow ache of despair, but a curious spaciousness. As if I’d been cleared out to make room for something new.
The next morning, I still had no answers. My circumstances hadn’t changed, but something inside had shifted. I made tea and sat watching the pale morning light through my window. I decided—not with dramatic resolution but with quiet trust—that I would have faith in this challenging process. I would stop fighting what was happening and flow with it, like a leaf carried by a stream.
Within two weeks, an old colleague contacted me about consulting work that ultimately led to the coaching practice I have today. I found a better apartment with reliable plumbing and morning sunlight. My friend’s treatment is beginning to show positive results.
None of these developments was instant or miraculous, but they came in their own time, like flowers pushing through concrete.
Looking back, I see that the breakdown preceded the breakthrough. The emptying created space for filling. The confusion preceded clarity. Not because there’s some cosmic law requiring pain before joy, but because sometimes we need to be lost entirely before we can be found again.
The Art of Kintsugi Living
There’s a Japanese aesthetic philosophy called “kintsugi”—the art of repairing broken pottery with gold. The philosophy suggests that breakage and repair are part of the object’s history, making it more beautiful, not less. I believe our lives work the same way. The breaks, the cracks, the places where we’ve been shattered and lovingly pieced back together—these become the most luminous parts of our story.
Trust doesn’t mean knowing the outcome. Trust means being willing to take the next step without seeing the entire staircase. It means holding your own hand through the darkness. It means believing—even without evidence—in the possibility of life happening for you rather than to you.
Where They Are Now
Last month, I received a message from Lakshit. He’d taken a two-week retreat in the mountains—something the old, always-hustling version of himself would never have allowed. “For the first time in my adult life,” he wrote, “I feel like I’m not running from or toward anything. I’m just here. And somehow, that’s enough.”
Aarohi has recently started dating again—not to fill the void left by her past relationship, but because she genuinely feels ready to connect. “The difference,” she explained during a recent check-in call, “is that I’m no longer looking for someone to complete my life. I’m looking for someone to share the life I’m already creating.”
These aren’t stories of perfect endings. They’re stories of beautiful beginnings. Of people who allowed life to break them open so they could be remade into something more authentic.
Your Invitation to Trust
So if you’re feeling lost right now, if the path ahead seems unclear or the burden too heavy, remember this:
- Confusion isn’t your enemy. It’s often the doorway to deeper understanding.
- Pain isn’t punishment. It’s frequently the catalyst for profound growth.
- Uncertainty isn’t to be feared. It’s the space where new possibilities are born.
Trust the process, even when it looks like chaos. Trust the silence, even when it’s punctuated by unanswered questions. Trust life, even when—especially when—it doesn’t make sense.
Because someday—perhaps when you least expect it—you’ll look back and see that those moments that made the least sense were precisely the turning points. The breakdown was the breakthrough. The ending was just the beginning of something else.
I came across a quote from poet Rainer Maria Rilke years ago that’s become something of a personal mantra:
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.”
Living the questions. Loving the questions. Trusting the questions.
Maybe that’s what this journey is really about: not rushing toward answers or certainty, but becoming skilled at dwelling peacefully in the land of not-knowing. Finding stability not in resolution, but in process.
I invite you today to breathe deeply, feel whatever you’re feeling without judgment, and trust that even if you can’t see the whole picture yet, you’re exactly where you need to be. The pieces will fall into place in time, the path will reveal itself step by step, and the light will return, as it always does after darkness.
Trust life, even when—especially when—it doesn’t make sense.
Because someday, it will.
Professional Note & Disclaimer
I’m Abhisshek Om Chakravarty, a certified Life Transformation Coach and entrepreneur, founder of D.H.A.R.M. Sadhana method, and trained in other evidence-based holistic frameworks. All coaching sessions referenced are conducted with my clients. My coaching focuses on personal growth and spiritual development and is not a substitute for clinical therapy. Individual results vary based on personal commitment and life circumstances. Client names and identifying details have been changed to protect privacy.
Your journey toward trust and inner peace can begin from anywhere. Let’s navigate the mystery together—one breath, one step, one moment at a time.
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Abhisshek Om Chakravarty, (Coach Abhisshek)
Life Transformation Coach
“Within each soul lies infinite wisdom; I simply help others uncover their light.”